What is abuse

Understand the different types of abuse, where it can happen, and the signs to look out for.

The examples do not cover everything. A person may experience more than one type of abuse at the same time.

Domestic abuse

This is when a partner or family member threatens you, hurts you or abuses you.

Domestic abuse advice and support

Forced marriage

This is a type of domestic abuse and happens where one or both people are made to marry without their full consent.

Forced marriage advice and support

Modern slavery

This is when you are held against your will and forced to do something. Examples of what it looks like include:

  • forced labour
  • exploitation through sex work
  • being made to carry out criminal acts

National Crime Agency: Modern slavery and human trafficking

Hate crime (discriminatory abuse)

This is when someone hurts you or makes fun of you because of your disability, culture, sexuality or religion.

Hate crime and hate incidents advice and support  

Financial and material abuse

This is when someone takes your money or belongings without your permission. Examples of what it looks like include:  

  • being pressured or tricked into handing over money or belongings  
  • someone misusing your assets like spending your money or using your car without permission
  • being prevented from accessing your own money or assets

Physical abuse

This is when someone hurts your body on purpose. Examples of what it looks like include:

  • hitting, slapping, pushing or kicking
  • holding you down or restraining you

Emotional abuse

This is when someone tries to control you, scare you or undermine your confidence. Examples of what it looks like include:

  • being nasty, name calling or making threats
  • making fun of you or intimidating you  
  • controlling what you do, who you see and where you go
  • isolating you from family, friends and support

Sexual abuse

This is when someone touches you in ways you don’t like or want. Examples of what it looks like include:

  • being made to act out sexual behaviour  
  • sexual acts being forced upon you without your consent

Neglect

This is when people who should help you do not look after you properly. Examples of what it looks like include:

  • not giving you enough food or drink  
  • not giving you your medication
  • not helping you to stay clean or manage your personal care  

Organisational abuse

This is when abuse or neglect happens in a care setting, such as a care home or hospital. Examples of what it looks like include:

  • staff not meeting your care needs  
  • lack of essential equipment such as hoists
  • staff and managers actively harming or threatening you

Self neglect

This is when you cannot or do not want to look after yourself properly. Examples of what it looks like include:

  • not looking after your personal hygiene
  • hoarding resulting in your health, wellbeing or safety being at risk

Want to know more

Take a look at these easy read guides about abuse and keeping safe.  

More information about types of abuse