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Skills and qualities of a good foster carer

Looking after any child involves juggling a number of responsibilities. As a foster carer we ask you to take on a lot and a good foster carer will need to have certain skills and qualities.

Accept different children

You need to be able to accept children and their families whatever the backgrounds they may come from and the different abilities they have. Every child is an individual and needs to be respected, while having their individual needs met.

Set ground rules

You will need to be firm and know how to set ground rules, but have some flexibility with these. Patience is essential, as is a good sense of humour to manage the day-to-day things that children do!

Put a child at ease and have fun

Feeling comfortable with children is obviously key. Could you help put a child at ease and make them feel a part of your family?

Social and family life should be fun! We want foster carers to take children on days out and give them great experiences they might not have had before.

Be sensitive and develop trust

You will be someone who is sensitive to children and can help them to open up to an adult and develop trust.

You might meet some children who may have challenging behaviour. Foster carers see children as individuals, seeing beyond behaviour and looking at the child within.

Focus on milestones

Foster carers know that the children they care for may reach milestones at different times to other children of a similar age. It is important that foster carers give positive support in helping them to achieve those milestones.

Be discreet

As a foster carer you would be given confidential information about children. It is very important that you are discreet and understanding.

Contact us

If you think you might have the skills and qualities which make a good foster carer? Please contact us.

  • Modified: May 13, 2014 8:58:11 AM